when you do sth wrong or sth u dun feel proud of what to u do??
some ppl face it bravely, i dont. i chuck it under the rug and hope that while i forget it, it also forgets me. chicken rite. yeah. i know. but thats the only way of "solving" things i know well enough to carry out.
i try not to talk abt it, tell as few people as possible, and even if it creeps out the corner of my mind, treat as if its not there. nevertheless, i'll face it headstrong if in any case, i am forced to have to face it.
but somehow, i come to learn a few things.
... all problems can be solved given enough time and money.
... problems may have permanent effects on people, and since its pemanent, we just have to live our lives to the best that we can.
... even if you pretend the problem doesnt exist, learn from it so that it never ever happens again. if the problem can be hidden, be thankful that the whole world doesnt have to know and be thankful that you can learn from your mistake before it gets too late. if the problem cant be hidden, just live with it because nothing can be done. laugh at it(even if you have to force yourself) or watever, just dont dwell on it coz things wont get better that way.
... when you face any problems, even if it seems like a mountain in front of you and you cant solve it, take it a step at a time. just work towards making your life better coz wats the worse that can happen?? your life cant get any shittier than it already is rite? haha... and yeah. obviously solve the most important problems first and if you still fail, you've tried your best... and remember again, given enough money and time, any problem can be solved.
anyway... thats the few important things i learnt from problems. i know some / many people may disagree with what i think or how i handle my problems. but im just saying, this is how i do it...
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